Dear Sofia,
what I would like to know: are you glad to be a woman? Or indifferent? I once had a girl, she said that she would prefer to be a boy, since than she could be a knight. Of course, living today means to be unable to be a knight, wether you are a man or a woman, but it was a very impressive argument (for me). I like women, and I think they are much nicer to look at than men, so I would prefer to be a man, since I think it can be difficult as a woman to find a woman to love (but it's difficult anyway, isn't it?). But I would very much like to know how it is to be a woman; if I had the opportunity to become a woman for, say, a year, I most probably would do it. And you? In the past, I thought loving a woman in some way includes the wish to know how it is to be a woman, you know, exploring her being. Living together with you, I know think different about it. Maybe you also don't know how it is to be a woman, since you are just one woman and not the woman. So I didn't find the woman, I just found you (but it's not really a "just"). And also, the longer we are together, the more we become similair (mostly in regard of our errors, I sometimes fear). What do you think about? Sometimes women complain that men don't take their experiences serious; but again: waht do you think about it?

Yours,
John